By While I’m confident in who I am, I come with my own set of insecurities about how I look. Honestly, I lost my body confidence in motherhood. After P, I started picking apart my mama stripes, jiggly thighs, stomach — alludat. I pulled the “I’m getting older” card, looked in the mirror and saw flaws, and retreated back to what felt safe. I feel cute when I get glammed up but I rarely feel SEXY. Sexy is foreign and uncomfortable, yet a feeling I desire. Last year, I started working out and changed my diet but quickly realized the hardest part was in changing how I perceive myself. Yes, I look tall and thin, but your perception wasn’t/isn’t my reality, despite my husband constantly lifting me up. Changing your mindset takes time. It’s taking time.
Ladies, whatever makes you feel sexy — heels, skinny jeans, a sheer top, a bodycon dress — embrace it! Be brave, be bold, and be fearless!!! #Activateyoursexy and do so unapologetically! If you don’t love your body today, it’s ok, i’m not crazy about mine either. But work at it and commit to being the change you want to see within yourself.will always be a sneakers + v-neck gal at heart but I’m learning how to give myself permission to hang up my mom uniform, enjoy the “right time and right place”, and channel my sexy! Not because my body is where I want it to be, but because I’m learning to love where I am!! ❤
